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An Email I Received Today

I posted yesterday about the great date I had with T. Well, I got an amazing first impression from him and the whole idea of finding my perfect sugar daddy online. Today, I received a few emails and one in particular stood out that made me realize that there are a lot of men who really just want a high class escort and are afraid to come out and say it:

I’m a young doctor visiting until Tues May 20 – I’m seeking an intimate encounter in my luxurious hotel. I'm an honest guy and I'll tell you what I'm looking for - I'll gladly give you money/gifts for sex - can't get any more honest than that! Maybe something develops, maybe it doesn't. I only visit a few times a year, but I’ll take care of you all year, so you'd have your freedom. Does that relationship sound like a possibility to you? I promise to treat you well, spend money on you, and show you a good time... write me back

Well, Mr. Young Doctor, I'm not that type of girl. The relationships that I have are not about sex for money. They really aren't, despite any ideas you may have about a girl who is a "sugar baby". The only difference from a typical dating situation is that I date men who want a very attractive, younger woman and are willing to be generous with gifts, trips, and sometimes money. A good sugardaddy/sugarbaby relationship to me is more than just the occasional gift and a roll in the hay - there has to be an emotional connection, even if it is a connection based on the fantasy of being with a "Barbie Doll" or beautiful and intelligent younger woman.

Comparing Mr. Young Doctor to Jim (not his real name), my former boyfriend from Las Vegas, is night and day. The first thing Mr. Young Doctor mentions is sex. Jim never once in the 6 months we were involved mentioned sex - all the times we did, it was me who took the lead. Most of our time together was spent out on the town - dinners, dancing, shopping, and shows.

I won't let this discourage me, but I think that I'm going to find more men online that are like this than are like my fabulous T.

Meeting T

I just got home from a fantastic date. For the sake of privacy, I'll just call him T on this blog. T is actually the first potential sugar daddy I've ever met online and so far, so good. I know most probably won't go this well, but he definitely made me re-think my opinion of online dating.

He suggested we meet for drinks at the bar at a very nice hotel, so I wanted to make sure to be extra cute and really show off for him. The new dress I bought this morning really looked great and I could tell how much he appreciated the view he got of my legs - the dress is barely past mid thigh on me. He was in jeans and a jacket, but I could easily recognize his watch. One of the first things I look at is a man's watch and shoes - some things can be faked, but a gold Patek Phillipe can't.

We settled into a booth together and he ordered champagne for both of us. We sat for about 45 minutes and talked about his business, travels, and the typical things you talk about on a first date. After our drinks, we got up to take a short walk and talked some more - planning a second date, what sort of arrangement would work for both of us.

I normally don't sleep with a man on the first date and today was no exception. However, the real reason we didn't is because he had to get home to his wife for dinner. Seriously, he completely swept me off my feet from the moment we started talking to the moment we parted with a soft, lingering kiss.

I'll meet him for dinnner and shopping later this week. If all goes well, we'll set something regular up. Either way, I'm always going to have a backup plan.

Kisses,
AllieSB

Getting Ready for My Date

I'm sure there are a lot of people who think that the life of a sugarbaby is nothing but dining, diamonds, and luxury. In a way, you're right... Of course, that doesn't take into account the amount of time and effort getting ready to dazzle a potential new sugar daddy or to keep the attention of an existing sugar daddy.

I spent the entire morning getting a manicure, pedicure, and shopping. I found the perfect dress (a very sexy green bubble dress that will really show off my legs) for an afternoon cocktail date, but couldn't find any shoes... Fortunately, I have a pair of gold strappy sandals that will work. Will my date be dazzled or will I not live up to his expectations? These are the things that I worry about when meeting a new sugar daddy for the first time.

All in all, I'll spend probably 5 hours getting ready for a 1 or 2 hour date... Being a wealthy man's Barbie doll is hard work.

Kisses,
AllieSB

Beginnings...

There are many ideas and preconceived notions about a woman who chooses to be a sugarbaby, mistress, paramour, or whatever you might choose to call it.

I don't like to label myself as any of those, but simply see myself as a beautiful young woman who enjoys the company of successful, wealthy men and the benefits they can provide.

In the past 3 years, I have dated a married attorney from New York and a 58 year old confirmed bachelor from Las Vegas. I've had various other dates and encounters, but dated these two the longest. They both had one thing in common: they wanted a beautiful trophy on their arm and in their beds. To me, it is only natural that I expected them to be very generous in return.

In this blog, I'll share some stories from these past relationships and from my experiences moving forward. For now, I've got to run and begin getting ready for a date this evening... It's a first date and I want to be sure to impress.

Kisses,
AllieSB