An Email I Received Today

I posted yesterday about the great date I had with T. Well, I got an amazing first impression from him and the whole idea of finding my perfect sugar daddy online. Today, I received a few emails and one in particular stood out that made me realize that there are a lot of men who really just want a high class escort and are afraid to come out and say it:

I’m a young doctor visiting until Tues May 20 – I’m seeking an intimate encounter in my luxurious hotel. I'm an honest guy and I'll tell you what I'm looking for - I'll gladly give you money/gifts for sex - can't get any more honest than that! Maybe something develops, maybe it doesn't. I only visit a few times a year, but I’ll take care of you all year, so you'd have your freedom. Does that relationship sound like a possibility to you? I promise to treat you well, spend money on you, and show you a good time... write me back

Well, Mr. Young Doctor, I'm not that type of girl. The relationships that I have are not about sex for money. They really aren't, despite any ideas you may have about a girl who is a "sugar baby". The only difference from a typical dating situation is that I date men who want a very attractive, younger woman and are willing to be generous with gifts, trips, and sometimes money. A good sugardaddy/sugarbaby relationship to me is more than just the occasional gift and a roll in the hay - there has to be an emotional connection, even if it is a connection based on the fantasy of being with a "Barbie Doll" or beautiful and intelligent younger woman.

Comparing Mr. Young Doctor to Jim (not his real name), my former boyfriend from Las Vegas, is night and day. The first thing Mr. Young Doctor mentions is sex. Jim never once in the 6 months we were involved mentioned sex - all the times we did, it was me who took the lead. Most of our time together was spent out on the town - dinners, dancing, shopping, and shows.

I won't let this discourage me, but I think that I'm going to find more men online that are like this than are like my fabulous T.